Mike,
My suggestion for lighting has always been \"less is more\". Use as few lights at as low an intensity as you can. Too many lights and too high an intensity was out all of the detail. Think of where you want hot spots and shadows and place lighting to create those. Use different intensities no your lights as well as adjust light fixture placement from the floor to create the look you want. I usually perform my renders a little dark which really brings our the details then use the contrast, brightness and gamma controls in Irfanview to \"lighten\" the image.
One of the most important things is to give every texture in your render \"shine\". a value of 2 to 3 for floors and walls and up to a value of 4 for cabinet parts. For my cabinets I use different textures for the sheet goods, face frames, doors, and moldings. They can be similar textures but if you have slightly different textures it adds contrast and you can give them different shine values which really helps in the final view. For example I give moldings a shine of 4 which makes them reflect more and really stand out and show their details.
Light placement is experimental. If you have a hot spot on a wall or the textures are washed out, move the light away from that wall and lower the brightness.
Smaller rooms are harder to light and require more fixtures because you have to light all of the tight nooks and crannies. My rule for more fixtures is to lower the brightness for every fixture you add.
Another tip is to use wall and floor textures that ad color and contrast. Forget about the customers room, use textures that make your boxes look good.
One final thing. Add all of the details. Cut profiles on your counter tops. Cut profiles or add moldings to the bottom of your cabinets. cut profiles on the corners of your open end cabinets. Put in all of the plants, chairs and wall hangings that you can. These things are what make the final render impressive.
If you really want to go all out take your final views into PhotoShop or something similar and add Gaussian blur to create a haze and further improve your lighting.
This small room took six light fixtures to create the effect. A larger room can be lit with three fixtures.
Here is the placement of the light fixtures.
Kerry